Quotes on Narcissism & The Narcissistic
"Narcissists enjoy your pain. The more
you show the narcissist your tears the more grandiose they will feel. If
you really want to make the narcissist feel all powerful, simply let him
break you." ~Tigress Luv
"Whether with a narcissist a week, a
month, a year, a decade, or a half of a century, one thing is for sure...one
day you will wake up to the revelation that it was all just a figment of
your imagination." ~Tigress Luv
"The narcissist lives in his own,
self-created parallel universe. In this world he is the Almighty Gatekeeper.
To the unsuspecting and trusting, the narcissist can expertly charm them
into this kingdom only to dethrone them in the blink of an eye, stripping
them of their souls and casting their left-over, bleached bones to the
demons of his hell. Tread lightly in his world as this feeding fuels his
power and satisfies his ego-hungry cravings; the narcissist's ego is never
satiated." ~Tigress Luv
"Ironically, if the narcissist sees that
you don't love him anymore he will then be intent on making you hate him.
Either way, he will feel powerful in his complete control over you. The one
thing that narcissists can't stand is apathy - towards him." ~Tigress
"Forget the food, the way to a narcissist's
heart is with your tears; narcissist feed on your pain." ~Tigress
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Counterfeit Heart: Living With, Loving and Leaving the Narcissistic
By the time we become aware of the fact that
we are with a narcissist it is usually too late. Our narcissist has already
destroyed our feelings of self worth and self esteem. They have devalued
us, demonized us, insulted us, abused us, humiliated us, and stripped us
of our sanity!
Usually this clarity doesn't come to light until
after we have totally absented ourselves from the relationship. Only then
does the fog disappear and the clouds lift and we can see fully just how
messed up they made us.
When you can sit back and see the reality it
will be sad and eye-opening all at the same time. You will see how you went
into the relationship a healthy, beautiful and complete person and exited
it an empty shell of one. This is because you were gradually fed the narcissistic
abuse and unpredictable confusing behavior so s-l-o-w-l-y that you never
saw it coming until it was too late.
I once heard this being referred to as receiving
a cunningly, deceitful 'drip-feed' of insults, negative judgments, put-downs,
and belittling behavior from your narcissist - a 'drip-feed' in small, daily
doses. A negative behavior that snuck up on you when you weren't expecting
it, coming through the back door and suddenly towering over you when it was
too late to defend yourself or save yourself from it's poison - a poison
that was already racing through your veins.
Once you have totally removed yourself from the
poison that is being drip-fed into you can you 'come to' and see the reality
of your situation. This is when your true healing from loving someone with
narcissistic personality disorder and the understanding of it all begins.
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Guru ( and the ex of a narcissist! :) )
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