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Quotes on Narcissism & The Narcissistic Personality Disorder

"Narcissists enjoy your pain. The more you show the narcissist your tears the more grandiose they will feel. If you really want to make the narcissist feel all powerful, simply let him break you." ~Tigress Luv

"Whether with a narcissist a week, a month, a year, a decade, or a half of a century, one thing is for sure...one day you will wake up to the revelation that it was all just a figment of your imagination." ~Tigress Luv

"The narcissist lives in his own, self-created parallel universe. In this world he is the Almighty Gatekeeper. To the unsuspecting and trusting, the narcissist can expertly charm them into this kingdom only to dethrone them in the blink of an eye, stripping them of their souls and casting their left-over, bleached bones to the demons of his hell. Tread lightly in his world as this feeding fuels his power and satisfies his ego-hungry cravings; the narcissist's ego is never satiated." ~Tigress Luv

"Ironically, if the narcissist sees that you don't love him anymore he will then be intent on making you hate him. Either way, he will feel powerful in his complete control over you. The one thing that narcissists can't stand is apathy - towards him." ~Tigress Luv

"Forget the food, the way to a narcissist's heart is with your tears; narcissist feed on your pain." ~Tigress Luv

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When the Narcissist has Destroyed Your Self-worth


Article by Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru and brought to you by The Counterfeit Heart: Living With, Loving and Leaving the Narcissistic Man

By the time we become aware of the fact that we are with a narcissist it is usually too late. Our narcissist has already destroyed our feelings of self worth and self esteem. They have devalued us, demonized us, insulted us, abused us, humiliated us, and stripped us of our sanity!

Usually this clarity doesn't come to light until after we have totally absented ourselves from the relationship. Only then does the fog disappear and the clouds lift and we can see fully just how messed up they made us.

When you can sit back and see the reality it will be sad and eye-opening all at the same time. You will see how you went into the relationship a healthy, beautiful and complete person and exited it an empty shell of one. This is because you were gradually fed the narcissistic abuse and unpredictable confusing behavior so s-l-o-w-l-y that you never saw it coming until it was too late.

I once heard this being referred to as receiving a cunningly, deceitful 'drip-feed' of insults, negative judgments, put-downs, and belittling behavior from your narcissist - a 'drip-feed' in small, daily doses. A negative behavior that snuck up on you when you weren't expecting it, coming through the back door and suddenly towering over you when it was too late to defend yourself or save yourself from it's poison - a poison that was already racing through your veins.

Once you have totally removed yourself from the poison that is being drip-fed into you can you 'come to' and see the reality of your situation. This is when your true healing from loving someone with narcissistic personality disorder and the understanding of it all begins.



By Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru ( and the ex of a narcissist! :) )

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