Quotes on Narcissism & The Narcissistic
"Narcissists enjoy your pain. The more
you show the narcissist your tears the more grandiose they will feel. If
you really want to make the narcissist feel all powerful, simply let him
break you." ~Tigress Luv
"Whether with a narcissist a week, a
month, a year, a decade, or a half of a century, one thing is for sure...one
day you will wake up to the revelation that it was all just a figment of
your imagination." ~Tigress Luv
"The narcissist lives in his own,
self-created parallel universe. In this world he is the Almighty Gatekeeper.
To the unsuspecting and trusting, the narcissist can expertly charm them
into this kingdom only to dethrone them in the blink of an eye, stripping
them of their souls and casting their left-over, bleached bones to the
demons of his hell. Tread lightly in his world as this feeding fuels his
power and satisfies his ego-hungry cravings; the narcissist's ego is never
satiated." ~Tigress Luv
"Ironically, if the narcissist sees that
you don't love him anymore he will then be intent on making you hate him.
Either way, he will feel powerful in his complete control over you. The one
thing that narcissists can't stand is apathy - towards him." ~Tigress
"Forget the food, the way to a narcissist's
heart is with your tears; narcissist feed on your pain." ~Tigress
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The narcissist can spin his own reality as easily
as a Wheel of Fortune contestant can spin the lucky wheel. He is a master
at psychological 'abduction' and he can distort your thinking into illogical
randomness that may make you feel like you are 'losing it'.
He can that rationalize 'his' reality and make
you feel even more confused. He can make you feel bewildered and befuddled
all while making himself look calm, cool, collective and rational. This,
in itself, is a form of abuse.
It's all part of the narcissist's 'devaluation
The problem is many of us are still thinking
that the 'fake' person we met in the beginning is 'real' and we keep waiting
for this wonderful person to reemerge. It is this person that we fall in
love with, and we haven't the ability to see that this person never truly
existed. He was a figment of our imagination - an actor in a play - a semblance
of a real man. The man that we believe we love isn't real...the 'real' man
that stands before us - belittling us and devaluing us - is the man he truly
is. The other man was just a fallacy.
Once you become in a 'real' relationship with
a narcissist the 'devaluation cycle' starts. You will go from 'wonderful
'to 'despicable' almost overnight. He will insult you, make you feel
unattractive, incapable, and unpopular. He will tell you that you are a failure
and that people don't like you. He will pick you apart, dissecting you to
find faults and flaws and point these imperfections out to you. Oftentimes,
he projects his own shortcomings on to you, accusing you of doing or being
the very same exact thing that he is.
Unfortunately, even the wisest of women can
unsuspectingly be caught up in the 'devaluation cycle' without even realizing
it. This is because they are either in denial, or still believing that the
man that stands before them is the 'same' man they met, and not realizing
that the man they met was simply a fabricated facade meant to charm her and
lure her in.
It's a sad fact that by the time we realize what
is happening we have already suffered much damage. Healing from this traumatic
experience can take years, and recovery is slow. Narcissistic abuse is one
of the hardest abuses to overcome. To make recovery even more difficult,
most of our friends only see the 'fake' side of the narcissist and can not
relate to us, or understand with compassion and support, the trauma we have
suffered through with the narcissist. This cuts off our support group, and
makes recovery from a narcissist also one of the loneliest and most isolated
roads you will travel.
For more help in recovery and to join our narcissist
support group, and talk to others who have been there, please visit
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