Quotes on Narcissism & The Narcissistic
"Narcissists enjoy your pain. The more
you show the narcissist your tears the more grandiose they will feel. If
you really want to make the narcissist feel all powerful, simply let him
break you." ~Tigress Luv
"Whether with a narcissist a week, a
month, a year, a decade, or a half of a century, one thing is for sure...one
day you will wake up to the revelation that it was all just a figment of
your imagination." ~Tigress Luv
"The narcissist lives in his own,
self-created parallel universe. In this world he is the Almighty Gatekeeper.
To the unsuspecting and trusting, the narcissist can expertly charm them
into this kingdom only to dethrone them in the blink of an eye, stripping
them of their souls and casting their left-over, bleached bones to the
demons of his hell. Tread lightly in his world as this feeding fuels his
power and satisfies his ego-hungry cravings; the narcissist's ego is never
satiated." ~Tigress Luv
"Ironically, if the narcissist sees that
you don't love him anymore he will then be intent on making you hate him.
Either way, he will feel powerful in his complete control over you. The one
thing that narcissists can't stand is apathy - towards him." ~Tigress
"Forget the food, the way to a narcissist's
heart is with your tears; narcissist feed on your pain." ~Tigress
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Don't take what the narcissist says or does
seriously. Nothing the narcissist says or does is real. It is all a manipulative
method of holding power over you in order for them to keep their ego stroked.
The more they can push your buttons, whether it be in a positive or a negative
way, the more they will feel good about themselves, and the more they will
receive their narcissistic supply.
The more you come to understand the narcissist's
motives for what they say and do the more you will lose respect for them
and this helps you take away any validity you may have once placed on their
comments, behaviors, or actions.
For everything the narcissist does he has an
underlying reason, even though the methods may be different. In the beginning
his method may have been to charm you, to make you feel special, beautiful
whatever...this was his way to gain your love, adoration and approval, of
which he needed to feed his hungry ego. He had power over your emotions;
what more of a god could he become? Once the relationship progressed and
you became aware of his flaws and faults (as we all possess these)
he then couldn't use his absolute faked charm to captivate and control you
so he gained his ego supply by controlling you in a negative way. The
control was the same, the method just changed. He simply went from 'charm'
to 'disarm'. But still he held you captive - pulled your strings - pushed
your buttons - and this fed his hungry ego.
Once you stop taking ownership over his issues
and once you learn to not take what he says or does as the gospel truth,
you will weaken his ability to control you and you will regain back your
sense of normalcy and self-esteem.
By Tigress Luv, The Breakup
Guru ( and the ex of a narcissist! :) )
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