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Quotes on Narcissism & The Narcissistic Personality Disorder

"Narcissists enjoy your pain. The more you show the narcissist your tears the more grandiose they will feel. If you really want to make the narcissist feel all powerful, simply let him break you." ~Tigress Luv

"Whether with a narcissist a week, a month, a year, a decade, or a half of a century, one thing is for sure...one day you will wake up to the revelation that it was all just a figment of your imagination." ~Tigress Luv

"The narcissist lives in his own, self-created parallel universe. In this world he is the Almighty Gatekeeper. To the unsuspecting and trusting, the narcissist can expertly charm them into this kingdom only to dethrone them in the blink of an eye, stripping them of their souls and casting their left-over, bleached bones to the demons of his hell. Tread lightly in his world as this feeding fuels his power and satisfies his ego-hungry cravings; the narcissist's ego is never satiated." ~Tigress Luv

"Ironically, if the narcissist sees that you don't love him anymore he will then be intent on making you hate him. Either way, he will feel powerful in his complete control over you. The one thing that narcissists can't stand is apathy - towards him." ~Tigress Luv

"Forget the food, the way to a narcissist's heart is with your tears; narcissist feed on your pain." ~Tigress Luv

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Don't Take the Narcissist Seriously


Article by Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru and brought to you by The Counterfeit Heart: Living With, Loving and Leaving the Narcissistic Man

Don't take what the narcissist says or does seriously. Nothing the narcissist says or does is real. It is all a manipulative method of holding power over you in order for them to keep their ego stroked. The more they can push your buttons, whether it be in a positive or a negative way, the more they will feel good about themselves, and the more they will receive their narcissistic supply.

The more you come to understand the narcissist's motives for what they say and do the more you will lose respect for them and this helps you take away any validity you may have once placed on their comments, behaviors, or actions.

For everything the narcissist does he has an underlying reason, even though the methods may be different. In the beginning his method may have been to charm you, to make you feel special, beautiful whatever...this was his way to gain your love, adoration and approval, of which he needed to feed his hungry ego. He had power over your emotions; what more of a god could he become? Once the relationship progressed and you became aware of his flaws and faults (as we all possess these) he then couldn't use his absolute faked charm to captivate and control you so he gained his ego supply by controlling you in a negative way. The control was the same, the method just changed. He simply went from 'charm' to 'disarm'. But still he held you captive - pulled your strings - pushed your buttons - and this fed his hungry ego.

Once you stop taking ownership over his issues and once you learn to not take what he says or does as the gospel truth, you will weaken his ability to control you and you will regain back your sense of normalcy and self-esteem.



By Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru ( and the ex of a narcissist! :) )

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