Quotes on Narcissism & The Narcissistic
"Narcissists enjoy your pain. The more
you show the narcissist your tears the more grandiose they will feel. If
you really want to make the narcissist feel all powerful, simply let him
break you." ~Tigress Luv
"Whether with a narcissist a week, a
month, a year, a decade, or a half of a century, one thing is for sure...one
day you will wake up to the revelation that it was all just a figment of
your imagination." ~Tigress Luv
"The narcissist lives in his own,
self-created parallel universe. In this world he is the Almighty Gatekeeper.
To the unsuspecting and trusting, the narcissist can expertly charm them
into this kingdom only to dethrone them in the blink of an eye, stripping
them of their souls and casting their left-over, bleached bones to the
demons of his hell. Tread lightly in his world as this feeding fuels his
power and satisfies his ego-hungry cravings; the narcissist's ego is never
satiated." ~Tigress Luv
"Ironically, if the narcissist sees that
you don't love him anymore he will then be intent on making you hate him.
Either way, he will feel powerful in his complete control over you. The one
thing that narcissists can't stand is apathy - towards him." ~Tigress
"Forget the food, the way to a narcissist's
heart is with your tears; narcissist feed on your pain." ~Tigress
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Anger at the Narcissistic
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So you were involved with a narcissist and now
you are angry. YOU have the absolute right to be angry! Angry at the abuse.
Angry at all the years that you lived in the 'lie' of them; all those years
you lost to them. Angry that you gave and gave - gave your all and then gave
some more - and was devalued and ostracized at the end of it. Angry that
you were never put first; never placed above anything other than his
Anger may be your best friend when it comes
to healing from the narcissist. Anger may be able to help you regain your
Anger is good in that it prevents you from falling
back prey to this predator - the narcissist.
Anger will help you heal, it will help you become
more vigilant to narcissists in your future, and it will help you build your
ego back up. Anger repressed causes depression, so remember that by holding
your anger in you may become depressed and reclusive. So feel free to become
angry at him. Hit your pillow. Scream in outrage. Vent!
However, anger can also keep you 'connected'
to the situation and the abuse. So temper your anger. Allow it, feel it,
use it to compel you forward, but don't use it as a crutch, don't fall back
on it, and don't give into it and let it consume you. Use it as a tool
for recovery, but not as a weight that holds you steadfast in a sinking pit
of despair and self-pity.
But remember, anger is not about revenge. Happiness
is about revenge. To be happy to be rid of your narcissist is to make them
feel the wrath of you for a change. And that is always fun :)
By Tigress Luv, The Breakup
Guru ( and the ex of a narcissist! :) )
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